Joe Russo explains why Natasha is siding with Tony: “The Winter Soldier cemented the relationship between Steve and Natasha. Natasha, though, sees the world in shades of grey, and will find the events of Civil War pit her against Cap. She sees that they have made very public mistakes and she’s trying to convince Steve that it might not be as black and white as he sees it. Tony is a person who understands the grey as well as anybody. Cap is extremely black and white.”

эт да, мы такие

@темы: team rogers

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30.11.2015 в 13:02

Пишет  Эртебиз:

#hannigram. сила/слабость
Самое смешное, забавное и восхитительное в пейринге Ганнибал/Уилл вот что. Большую часть сериала Ганнибал весь такой альфа, манипулятор и доминант, заставляющий Уилла плясать под свою дудку, обольщающий его, обманывающий и вообще, нувыпоняли. А потом вдруг в их отношениях появляется вот эта ганнибальская нотка: "Уилл, ты можешь делать со мной все, что угодно". "Я сдамся и буду сидеть в психушке три года, чтобы ты точно знал, где меня найти", "Только скажи "пожалуйста", и я сделаю, что ты захочешь". И вершина - финальная сцена. В которой Ганнибал чуть ли не теряет сознание, когда Уилл его обнимает XD Это потрясающе, серьезно.

Под конец Чашечка обретает над Дьяволом-Ганнибалом огромную власть, да еще и осознает это. Я прямо очень хочу фанф, в котором в тайминге пост-финалки Уилл использовал бы эту власть всеми возможными способами, отрывался по-полной)

Гифсет в тему: axmxz.tumblr.com/post/134234138842/bu0nanotte-h...

вот что меня бесит, так это когда в фиках этого НЕТ.
когда продолжается вся эта линия с Ганнибалом-папочкой-доминирует во всех отношениях господи как это СКУЧНО.
дайте мне Уилла, который делает с Ганнибалом всё что хочет. это длилось всего 2 сезона а мне надо ЕЩЕ.

@темы: гиф, олени

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#yeah, but you’re totally bisexual (с)

#женскаядоля

это я к тому, что сегодня близкая подруга ни с того ни с сего написала мне такое сообщение: "Слушай а ты бы стала со мной встречаться в смысле как девушка и я девушка?"

интерес видимо исключительно научный, ну и слава богу, но всё равно забавно

@темы: supergirl, bi

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the hero is only as good as the villain

и господи какой страшный Киллгрейв в роли Теннанта
это конечно отдельный шах и мат для фанатов Доктора Кто
он жеж блять её любит
это ж блин практически Хэннигрэм, что самое страшное
за всё то, за что я его шипплю по очень большим знаком вопроса
тут вам и манипуляции, и эмоциональноые, и физическое насилие
и, главное, "никто не поймет тебя как я", "нет тех, кто и близко будет тебе равен"
но сила Джессики в том, что она нашла и сохранила тех, кому важны ее способности
Уилл же кромен Ганнибала реально вот какой он есть никому не нужен
а одиночество убивает

ps

не знаю че там все ноют "ой, ну все равно это не как daredevil", по-моему охуенно

@темы: олени, marvel cinematic universe, jessica jones

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imagine thorin oakenshield

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@темы: гиф, извините, marvel cinematic universe, hELLO FROM THE OTHER SIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII-IAAIDE

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@темы: there's no one out there

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Super: The Gayest ‘Stucky’ Moments in the ‘Captain America: Civil War’ Trailer

by Andrew Wheeler November 25, 2015 1:00 PM

The first trailer for Marvel’s Captain America: Civil War dropped late last night, and it riled up all the feels that Marvel Cinematic Universe fans are used to; the thrill of seeing a new character in action (hey, it’s Black Panther, finally!); the wonder at the awe-inspiring action and athelticism (Steve doing helicopter stretches!); the worry about how Black Widow‘s wig will look this time (pretty good).
But this trailer — and this movie — brings extra feels, because it’s the third and possibly final chapter in the MCU’s greatest romance; the ballad of Bucky and Steve. If you came to this trailer hoping for some lingering glances and barely concealed intimations of love, you weren’t going to leave disappointed. Let’s review the gayest Stucky moments (that’s Steve/Bucky) in the Civil War trailer.

1. THIS LOOK:



Chris Evans’s absurdly perfect Teutonic porcelain doll face trembles in a gesture of grateful recognition at Bucky’s intimate reminscences. To be truly loved by another is to be truly known by them, and to be remembered by someone who you thought had forgotten you is to be told that you are loved. Bless.

2. THIS SHOULDER PAT:



There is nothing inherently gay about one man touching another in a familiar way, of course, and it’s very unheathy to frame all male intimacy as gay. The solution to that is not to stop suggesting that being gay is bad, and that being perceived as gay as bad. Some male intimacy is gay!
Since this movie is unlikely to show us two men kissing, one man squeezing another man’s shoulder while gazing upon him with undisguided yearning is as good as we’re going to get.
(Fans of Chris Evans will note his exemplary acting here, as usually he grabs men by the left boob, and not the right shoulder. He changed it up because he has almost disappeared into his character. He is eyeing up that left boob, though.)

3. NAT KNOWS:



In the second Captain America movie, Black Widow had to pretend to be Steve’s girlfriend; but she was never interested in him, and he was never interested in her. Nat is under no illusions about where Steve’s heart truly lies, and she’s not afraid to tell him, as in the moment above.

4. WISTFUL YEARNING AT THE WINDOW:



This shot directly follows one of Bucky ‘disappearing’ in the street, and it’s basically the same beat you see at least five times in every Nicholas Sparks movie. “I love him, but he’s so wild and dangerous, and his fool antics are sure to get him killed. How can I ever trust him with my heart?”
In a Sparks movie this usually leads to wet sex against unvarnished wood, but in a Marvel movie it leads to…

5. STEVE AND BUCKY DOUBLE-TEAMING TONY:



I probably could have put that differently.
But this is certainly a consummation scene. Two bodies moving together in beautiful harmony, sparks flying between them as they pass a shield back and forth in front of a man in a robot suit. (Just me? Just me.)

6. ACTUAL LOVE:



The real meat of the movie (I probably could have put that differently) appears to be that Bucky is wanted for some terrible act he claims he didn’t commit, and Steve and Tony go to war over what should happen next. Steve’s devotion to his oldest and dearest friend is the very core of the film. There’s more to this than loyalty or fondness; more even than friendship, when taken to this extreme. This is a movie about Steve’s love for Bucky.
Now, maybe it’s not love between two gay men. Steve and Bucky are not actually lovers, and the suggestion that they are is not something that the text of the movie is going to explicitly deliver. That is why we have subtext. That is why we have fan fiction, and fan art. That is why there are online communities dedicated to building fictional worlds in which Steve and Bucky (or Steve and Sam, or Steve and Tony) are lovers. It’s not just that the text isn’t going to deliver a gay romance in this one movie; it’s that the text never delivers in this type of movie.
I’m not being glib when I call these screenshots the gayest moments in the trailer. Stucky fans had already dissected these little moments a hundred times over before you got up for breakfast this morning, because these breadcrumbs are all they get.
Yet if Bucky Barnes were a woman, this would be a love story, played out with all the same narrative beats. If Peggy were the brainwashed assassin kept frozen through the decades, this movie would definitely end in a kiss. Everything about the love, pain, and intimacy of the Steve/Bucky relationship on the big screen is typical of a romance, and that’s something fans are right to respond to — something the filmmakers may even be playing into, though surely not with any formal sign-off from Disney.
The world is increasingly more free, fair and tolerant for people in same-sex relationships, especially in countries like the US. Yet imagine this; if we lived in a world that had no hang-ups about same-sex relationships, no hate, no prejudice towards the idea of two men or two women together; do you doubt for a second that this movie would actually be a romance?
If everything else about this movie were the same, but we were different, wouldn’t it make sense for Steve and Bucky to kiss?
This movie looks about as gay as it’s allowed to be. One day we’ll get a movie like it that’s actually gay enough.


Read More: The Gayest 'Stucky' Moments in the 'Civil War' Trailer | comicsalliance.com/super-stucky-steve-bucky-civ...

@темы: гиф, bi, из всех искусств для нас важнейшим..., marvel cinematic universe, team rogers

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@темы: гиф, marvel cinematic universe, team rogers

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единственный пэринг который мне понравился в crimson peak

@темы: гиф

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Mental Health Apps

1. ACT Coach

ACT Coach teaches users how to tolerate negative thoughts and feelings by virtually guiding them through awareness exercises and giving tips on how to ditch self-doubt. With an extra focus on mindfulness, this app also provides a log to track your progress. (Free; iOS)

2. AETAS

Designed by therapist Rosemary Sword, this app uses Time Perspective Therapy, a method developed to unglue us from unhelpful or obsessive thoughts.

Chockfull of visual aids to encourage relaxation and self-soothing, AETAS also arms users with a time perspective inventory that helps them understand how they view the past, present and future will either help or hinder their happiness. ($4.99; iOS)

3. Breathe2Relax

Sometimes, all we need to de-stress is take a few deep breaths.

Created by the National Center for Telehealth and Technology, this app teaches users how to do diaphragmatic breathing. Features include educational videos on the stress response, logs to record stress levels and customizable guided breathing sessions. (Free; iOS and Android)

4. DBT Diary Card and Skills Coach

This app works as a daily mood and thought diary. But it also has a coaching module that gives tips on sticky emotional situations, like how to ask for what you need without drama or how to successfully resolve conflict.

And users get positive reinforcement when they’re consistent with their entries. The app also includes a super helpful DBT reference section for more info on coping skills — all backed by research. ($4.99; iOS)

5. Depression CBT Self-Help Guide

Need help managing the blues? Monitor dips in your mood, learn about clinical depression and treatments, try guided relaxation techniques and learn strategies to challenge negative thinking with this app. It’s all just a few taps and swipes away. (Free; Android)

6. eCBT calm

Implementing some of the many strategies of cognitive behavioral therapy, this app helps users assess their stress levels, practice mindfulness and relaxation skills, and connect their thoughts to feelings and behaviors.

The end result is more calm in your everyday life and more awareness of your actions and emotions. ($0.99; iOS)

7. Happify

Want to kick negative thoughts, nix worry and dial down stress? The array of engaging games, activity suggestions and gratitude prompts makes Happify a useful shortcut to a good mood.

Designed with input from 18 health and happiness experts, Happify’s positive mood-training program is psychologist approved. Even cooler? Its website links to bonus videos that are sure to make you smile. (Free; iOS)

8. How Are You

Tracking your moods can help you fight the blues and teach you to tune into positive things. That’s the premise behind this app.

But, as a bonus, it also allows you to compare your mood with worldwide averages, see which emotions you feel the most and export your mood tracking data so you can share it with a mental health professional or trusted friend. ($9.99-$12.99; iOS and Android)

9. MindShift

This straightforward stress management tool helps users re-think what’s stressing them out through a variety of on-screen prompts.

At the same time, the app encourages new ways to take charge of anxiety and tune into body signals. (Free; iOS and Android)

10. Operation Reach Out

This mood tracker and resource locator was designed by Emory University researchers to aid in suicide prevention.

The setup is simple: Users create a personal profile that includes emergency contact information, current medications, safety plans and reminders for appointments or medications.

Plus, the app uses GPS to locate mental health care services nearby, should any user enter crisis mode. (Free; iOS and Android)

11. PTSD Coach

If you suffer from PTSD symptoms, this 24-hour tool that’s linked directly with support services is a valuable thing to download.

Available as an app or on the Web, PTSD Coach lets users select the specific issue they want to deal with (from anxiety and anger to insomnia and alienation), and then gives them guidance on how to lift their mood, shift their mindset and reduce stress. (Free; iOS and Android)

12. Quit It

If you’re a smoker, you probably already know all about the nasty health consequences. But that probably doesn’t stop you from lighting up.

This app’s approach is different. It shows you the hit your wallet takes every time you get another pack. Even better: Quit It calculates how much money you save each time you don’t smoke.

Think of it as extra financial incentive to kick nicotine and tobacco (and save for something far better!). ($1.99; iOS)

13. Quit Pro

Think of this as a fitness tracker for your smoking habit. By monitoring your cravings over time, the places you puff the most, the triggers that lead you to light up and the money you save by resisting a cigarette, this comprehensive app is a much better thing to have in your back pocket than a pack of smokes. (Free; iOS and Android)

14. SAM

How do you know what’s pushing you over the edge and reel yourself back in? SAM’s approach is to monitor anxious thoughts, track behavior over time and use guided self-help exercises to discourage stress.

SAM takes it to the next level by offering a “Social Cloud” feature that allows users to confidentially share their progress with an online community for added support. (Free; iOS and Android)

15. Step Away

A study funded by the National Institute of Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism found this pro-sobriety app helped reduce heavy drinking among users by 60 percent.

Step Away offers tips on maintaining sobriety, encouragement and strategies to avoid drinking during stressful times. You’ll also be able to plug in your top drinking triggers to prepare yourself before facing down any tricky situation. (Free; iOS)

16. Stop, Breathe, Think!

Got five minutes? That’s enough time to cultivate mindfulness, which can improve your mood, lower stress and help you feel more compassion toward yourself and the world.

Skeptical? Well, consider that mindfulness and happiness tend to go hand-in-hand. And as added incentive, this app can also improve your focus. (Free; iOS and Android)

17. Stop Drinking

Relying on the powers of relaxation, visualization and positive suggestions, this pro-sobriety app has the goal of calming your mind and getting it to a less stressed place — where you’ll be less likely to crave a drink.

Take advantage of the reminder feature that gives periodic chimes to prompt you to breathe and focus on the good throughout the day. ($2.99; iOS and Android)

18. Stress and Anxiety Companion

Sure, we know that releasing negative thoughts, practicing relaxation techniques and engaging in mindful awareness is good for our wellbeing. But that doesn’t mean we actually do it.

This app can help make the process a lot easier by guiding you through proven techniques to reduce those off-kilter thoughts and emotions while cultivating a much more present mindset.

Additional features allow you to identify anxiety triggers to make sure they don’t catch you off-guard. ($4.99; iOS)

19. Talkspace

Bet you didn’t think you could chat with a therapist for just $25 a week. Well, Talkspace makes that possible.

For that low fee, you can text message with a trained professional every day of the week, as many times as you want. They also offer services for individuals and couples. Oh, and the best part? You can do it from your couch. ($25/month; iOS and Android)

20. Worry Watch

We all get anxious only to realize later our anxieties were overblown or irrational. The idea behind Worry Watch is to nip these moments in the bud.

This app enables users to track what kickstarts their anxiety, note trends in their feelings, observe when the outcomes were harmless and keep tabs on insights to stop future freakouts.

To lower your anxiety even further, Worry Watch is password protected, so whatever you divulge in the diary feature is safe and sound. ($1.99; iOS)

@темы: я удалила некоторые штуки, которые не актуальны для россии (и наверное даже европы), псих

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@темы: 10 points to gryffindor, из всех искусств для нас важнейшим...

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- I don't trust a man without a darkside.

@темы: гиф, marvel cinematic universe, team rogers, короче я обкинковалась, я вам скажу. я настолько это ПОНИМАЮ господи.

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Study Reveals What Cannabis Does To Your Brain

According to a new study, smoking high-potency skunk-like cannabis can significantly damage white matter, which is responsible for connecting different areas of the brain.

The team explored the impact of cannabis potency in inducing psychosis. They used an MRI technique to look at the white matter of 99 people, 56 of which had reported a first psychotic episode. They found that white matter damage was significantly greater among heavy users of high-potency cannabis compared to occasional or low-potency users.

Dr. Paola Dazzan, reader in neurobiology of psychosis from the Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology & Neuroscience (IoPPN) at King’s College London, and senior researcher on the study, said in a statement: “We found that frequent use of high potency cannabis significantly affects the structure of white matter fibres in the brain, whether you have psychosis or not. This reflects a sliding scale where the more cannabis you smoke and the higher the potency, the worse the damage will be.”

White matter is made of large bundles of nerve cells called axons, which connect the grey matter in different regions of the brain, enabling fast communication between them. The corpus callosum, a band of nerve fibers that connect the left and right hemispheres, is the largest white matter structure within the brain. The corpus callosum is rich in cannabinoid receptors that are affected by the tetrahydrocannabinol (THC) in cannabis.

In the last few decades, many strains of skunk weed have been grown around the world. The strains have been selected to contain a higher proportion of THC, a molecule that was shown to increase the risk of a psychotic disorder. Skunk is the most diffuse illegal drug in many countries; in the U.K., for example, it is virtually impossible to buy any other type of cannabis.

“There is an urgent need to educate health professionals, the public and policymakers about the risks involved with cannabis use,” Dr. Dazzan added.

“When assessing cannabis use it is extremely important to gather information on how often and what type of cannabis is being used. These details can help quantify the risk of mental health problems and increase awareness on the type of damage these substances can do to the brain.”

The study was published in the journal Psychological Medicine.

@темы: yeah, science!, eat your greens!

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на такую вот практически лавстори наткнулась на выставке Штайхена

Edward Steichen, Models Mary Taylor in a chiffon gown and Anne Whitehead in a moiré dress; mirrored stairway designed by Diego de Suarez, 1934

@темы: фотография

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нашла я гифсет про дружбу между Старком и Роджерсом, ну и в общем, хз, остаюсь при своем мнении. там есть какой-то надрыв. какая-то стена, что ли. или ощущение, что кому-то из них больше надо.

Source:kit-harington

@темы: гиф, marvel cinematic universe, team rogers

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эээ выложу когда смогу сократить, она не помещается в пост

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*когда психотерапевт присылает тебе научные статьи

В общем есть известная научно-популярная книга Жукова "Стой! Кто ведет?" о поведенческой биологии. Я не так давно выкладывала и его лекцию о выученной беспомощности. не так давно я послала эту лекцию своему врачу, через пару недель она задала мне вопрос: не было ли чего-то, что меня там покоробило. Было. Сексизм довольно очевиден, что печально.
И на это она прислала мне статью с разгромом сексистских заявлений этого гражданина. Spread it like wildfire!!!
Ибо в русском научпопе я уже не раз натыкаюсь на сексизм. У Бутовской в "Антропологии пола" тоже. То есть вроде про пол\гендер нормально (я в общем-то читала чтобы узнать больше про интерсекс\трансгендер), но когда идет про М и Ж какие-то странные или не понятно откуда взятые факты, не проходящие проверку.

И я в формате trial version подселила себе своего друга. Всего на пару недель, видимо, но что-то у меня прямо повысилось че-то внутри. Ника-лендлорд.
При этом он еще и из тех людей, которые не могут в грязи. Так что он мне постоянно присылает отчёты об уборке)) Да, это тот друг про которого я ныла несколькими постами ранее. Думали, я зря с ним дружу? Нет-нет. Я ему предоставлю дом, когда надо сбежать от родителей, он мне там уберётся.

@темы: феминизм, yeah, science!, personal place, терапия 3.0, псих

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How did “us against the world” become “me against you”?

Меня как-то опечалил один пост в ленте о реакции людей на трейлер Гражданки, так вот я наверное выскажусь о некоторых моментах.
В первую очередь я хочу чтобы как-то люди поняли, что трейлер очень провокационный для фанатов. Показали всех важных для Кэпа людей и как многие от него отказываются. Не только Тони, та же Наташа знает Капитана еще лучше, к примеру. Холиварогенность зашкаливает.

Важно: Это не только и не столько из-за Баки. Это из-за вопроса о регистрации сверхлюдей. Но то, что Баки трриггер и то, почему он им является - блин, друзей у вас что ли не было? Вот того Друга, который знал все ваши слабости и любил в том числе и за них. И когда вы поменялись местами в плане популярности, это тоже никак не повлияло на качество дружбы. Это вообще-то ну, довольно эпично.
Важно: Судя по всему, Кэп и его команда ни на кого не нападают до поры до времени. Изначально преследуют ИХ.
Важно: Слушайте, куда вы смотрели во время фильмов про Кэпа? Какое "мерзкое соперничество" между Баки и Стивом? Где оно? Баки принимает его любым, хоть и пару моментов там возникала зависть, но это вообще-то нормальная эмоция, когда не позволяешь ей разрушить отношения. Баки - единственный, кто Знает Стива Роджерса с самого начала. Чей первый вопрос на тему трансформации был заботой о друге - "Больно было?". Который верен Стиву в любых обстоятельствах всегда был и будет.

Удивительный аргумент про то, что бросать всё и бежать спасать Баки - это не в стиле Роджерса. М-м-м, ну как бы вообще-то в стиле.
И самый странный для меня аргумент - "как же дружба с Тони". Я ее никогда не видела. Не было блин её. Тони дружит с Бэннером, Стив - с Фальконом и Тором. Межну Стивом и Тони химия, которую, как я уже писала, я уверена что если бы у него была возможность, Джосс Уидон превратил бы в каноничные страстные любовные отношения. Но мы имеем что имеем и между этими двумя в основном только подколки, потому что как бы вот где зависть будет скорее - Тони всегда имел то, о чем Стив мог только мечтать (К.А. ведь из пробирки, до этого он был убогеньким не популярным нищим), а Тони построил себе ровно то, чем является Капитан Америка, ведь он же обычный человек, он не выживет без костюма, он даже не особенно одаренный боец как Наташа или Сокол.
Очень заметно, что Тони вообще не доверяет Стиву - моральному компасу команды. Он так и ждет от него подставы, потому что чувак, че-то в тебе не то, уж слишком ты правильный.
Если поговорить о том, кто косячит (и я совершенно не радуюсь тому, что Баки и Стив избивают Айронмена, ппц), то вот это Тони. Он искал, искал и нашел слабое место, темную сторону. Баки. Человек, убивший родителей Тони. И всё, дверь закрылась. Плевать на то, что про дружбу Баки и Стива говорится блин в музее. Тони искал причину дать Кэпу по щщам и нашел. Поздравляю его, чо)

Так, че-то я еще хотела сказать но я убегаю.

@темы: marvel cinematic universe

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@темы: шоб позырить, lgbt+